What to do when emergencies strike.  Aunt Flo visit. Sickness.  Parents in from out of town.  You needed a break.

So I’ll give you the group tip of the day. I’ve told you that you need to get pics and stuff to where you can post at least once a day, at the bare minimum offer ppv three times a week, well one of the girls time of the month came, so I told her that she needs to put back a couple of sets for emergencies like that. That way her stream of revenue doesn’t get interrupted.  This is easy to do but it starts with getting a few pic sets in the pocket.  Feeling sexy today?  We need to see it.  Need to shower? Great time.  Want to “take care of yourself?” Camera rolls.  Got a “friend” coming over? Get a release and go to town.  The possibilities are endless but if you lose momentum, it’s difficult to get it back.  

When you are starting out, it looks daunting: you want to do HOW many posts per day?  Some providers will schedule multiple posts PER DAY in messages but we are specifically talking today about your feed.  Three times a week is lovely starting out, but it is generally recommended to post 1 time per day, and no more than 2 times per day. In fact, some studies have even found a drop in engagement if you’re posting more than that… so don’t get too post-happy. Aim for quality over quantity. The average Facebook Page shares 1.55 posts per day. (Source: Hootsuite)

Same goes for Insta and Twitter, give or take a couple of posts.  So, we can apply the same logic to OF and FS, respectively.  And honestly, posts don’t have to be much.

WTF do I post?  Well, some accounts are full nude, some are cosplay, so that is up to you.  I suggest a pic in the car, “Hey what are you guys up to today?  Tip $5 if you’re horny.”(Lets be honest if that was me, you’d be getting a lot of money)  Or tease to a PPV… or “Hey I just woke up, Tip $5 for help with that morning wood.”  Sky is the limit, engagement is the key.  If you do it right, you can schedule these and be practically hands-off.  Get with me if you want to start scheduling.  It’s easy and quick.  

Good to use a “Rule of thirds” approach when scheduling. 

⅓ promote your business, I.e. packages, promos

⅓ share personal stories

⅓ are informative insights on what you offer I.e. tip menu.  Don’t have one?  You need one.

Ok so I was researching sexting and look at what I found!

Alyson Sheppard Nov 18, 2013

ThinkStock/Erin McCarthy / ThinkStock/Erin McCarthy

Sexting didn’t start with smartphones.

Abbreviating conversational phrases with acronyms isn’t unique to this decade or even this millennium. Friends and lovers exchanged hand-written letters with truncated sayings—both sweet and pornographic—as far back as Biblical times. Historian Simon Garfield chronicles this phenomenon in his book, To The Letter.

“We think abbreviating with acronyms is new with texts and email, but it’s been going on for two thousand years,” Garfield says. “Back when a Roman would write to his friend, he would begin a letter, ‘I hope you’re well, I’m fine.’ But they got bored with that, so they would shorten it to the Latin acronym ‘SVBEEQV,’ which stood for si vales bene est, ego quidem valeo: If you’re well, that’s good—all’s well with me.”

And while many early acronyms were used to save time, others were codes, meant to only be decipherable to the recipient. This was especially rampant in the run-up to and during World War II, when troops wanted to get a rise out of their sweethearts back home. They developed their own cryptic acronyms, many of which were sexually graphic, and scrawled them on the back of love letter envelopes.

“Soldiers were either too embarrassed to write the messages down in full or they thought the letters would get read and censored by their superiors,” Garfield says. Parents who discovered the meanings may not have been amused, but mail was seen as “essential to the maintenance of morale,” according to Garfield. Here are 11 of the most popular acronyms with soldiers in the 1930s. As a reminder, your grandfathers came up with these! (And some of them are definitely not appropriate for children.)

1. FRANCE: Friendship Remains And Never Can End

2. ITALY: I Trust And Love You

3. HOLLAND: Hope Our Love Lasts And Never Dies

4. SWALK: Sealed With A Loving Kiss

5. MALAYA: My Ardent Lips Await Your Arrival

6. EGYPT: Eager to Grab Your Pretty Tits

7. BURMA: Be Undressed/Upstairs Ready My Angel

8. NORWICH: (k)Nickers Off Ready When I Come Home

9. ENGLAND: Every Naked Girl Loves A Naked Dick

10. VENICE: Very Excited Now I Caress Everywhere

11. CHINA: Come Home I’m Naked Already

Yes, it’s that time. Time to delve into the wonderful world of online sex terminology. Some of you may know a lot of this, but maybe you don’t know all of it. Lets see.

Anal Sex: Any kind of sexual activity that typically involves penetration of the anus (a.k.a. your butthole).

Anorgasmia: When you have a difficult time reaching orgasm despite receiving the necessary stimulation.

Asexual: A sexual orientation described by the Asexual Visibility and Education Network as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction.” There are many stereotypes about asexual people, including that they cannot experience romance, though that is not true.

Autosexual: Being attracted to or aroused by yourself. Autosexuality is classified as a sexual orientation, and it exists on a spectrum.

Bareback: When you have sex without using protection, like condoms.

BDSM: A power dynamic-based form of sexual play that stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism. For more information, read the WH beginner’s guide to BDSM.

Bisexual: A sexual orientation where you are romantically and/or sexually attracted to both your own gender and those of a gender that is not your own.

Blow Job: Also called “going down” on someone, a blow job is when you put your lover’s penis or strap-on in your mouth so that you can suck and lick it for their pleasure. If you’re going down on someone with a vagina, this is called cunnilingus.

Blue Balls: A non-dangerous, non-medical term, blue balls is a term for when a person’s scrotum feels pain because they are experiencing prolonged sexual arousal without the release of an orgasm.

Breath Play: A consensual BDSM-related activity, breath play involves the restriction of oxygen to increase sexual pleasure or stimulate an orgasm. This is a risky behavior that requires extreme caution.

Bulge: The outline of a person’s penis that you can see through their underwear, swimsuit, pants, etc. It’s an image that some people find to be erotic.

Butt Plug: A sex toy that is inserted into the anus —hence the term “plug”— for the wearer’s pleasure. They come in various shapes, typically resembling a tear drop, a penis head, a triangle, etc. The material also varies from plastic, to rubber, to glass, and sometimes they even vibrate.

Cowgirl: When a person situates themself so that they’re sitting on top of their partner, legs at the sides of their hips, moving themselves up and down, side to side, around, and more, on their partner’s penis, sex toy, hand, etc.

Cosplay: A shortened version of the word “costume play,” where people dress up as a character or pop culture icon and then embody that persona for a certain period of time. This doesn’t have to be sexual, necessarily, but it’s often talked about in a sexual context.

Creampie: Hint, it’s not the dessert. A creampie is when semen drips out of the vagina after a person has ejaculated into it during sex.

Clitoris: A small, sensitive sexual organ (part of the vulva) with thousands of nerve endings. Many people with vulvas need their clitoris to be stimulated in order to achieve an orgasm.

Circumcision: A procedure that removes the foreskin of the penis to more prominently reveal the penis head. It is purely an aesthetic, personal, or cultural decision, usually made at birth. The procedure can be done during adulthood for medical reasons as well.

Cunnilingus: A word that means performing oral sex on a person with a vulva. You use your lips and tongue to stimulate the vulva-haver’s genitals, oftentimes their labia majora (outer lips), labia minora (inner lips), and clitoris.

Deep Throating: This occurs during a blow job, and is when a person pushes their partner’s penis all the way into the back of their throat (or as deep as they are capable of going). At times, this technique can result in gagging or vomiting for the giver.

Demisexual: A sexual orientation, demisexual is when you do not experience sexual attraction toward someone unless you feel an emotional connection with them first.

Diaphragm: Sitting at the edge of the cervix, a diaphragm is a contraceptive device that blocks sperm from fertilizing an egg.

Dirty Talk: Just like it sounds, basically. Dirty talk is when you talk about sex, the act of sex, performing sexual acts with or on your partner, etc. You can do dirty talk before you have sex, while you’re doing it, when you’re trying to get aroused, etc.

Doggy-Style: When one person enters another from behind, while the receiver is on their hands and knees. (The position somewhat mimics the way that dogs and other animals have sex, hence the name.)

Edging: A technique where you get as close to orgasm as possible, or delay your orgasm for as long as possible, in order to ultimately reach a stronger, more powerful orgasm once you release it.

Face-Sitting: When you receive oral sex by sitting above your partner’s mouth with your genitals on top of them.

Facial: This is when someone with a penis ejaculates onto the face of their partner.

Fingering: When a person uses their finger to stimulate a person’s vagina, clitoris, vulva, etc. This can be done until the vulva-having person has an orgasm or as a foreplay method.

Foot Fetish: This is a sexual interest where a person has a particular attraction to feet. This can mean they like the look of feet or they enjoy physical stimulation like touching, licking, kissing, sucking, etc., on feet.

Foot Job: This is when a person uses their feet to sexually stimulate a person’s genitals, typically using a lubricant and moving the feet in an up and down motion over the penis. Think of this like a hand job (more on that later), but with feet.

Foreplay: The actions that often, but not always, act as precursors to sex. This can include things like making out or cuddling, as well as fingering or dirty talk. It’s typically considered a large umbrella term, so the definition is fluid.

Golden Shower: While it has many presumed meanings, a golden shower typically refers to when a person pees on their partner or in front of said partner, while also in a sexual context.

Gagging: Typically a form of sexual kink or BDSM dominant and submissive play, gagging is a consensual act, and is where a person is choked by a hand or object during sex.

Hand Job: This is when you use your hand to stimulate a penis-haver, often until they reach orgasm.

Hickey: This is a discoloration or bruise that occurs when you or your partner suck on a fleshy piece of skin (stereotypically on the neck), causing blood vessels to burst. Getting one isn’t harmful or dangerous, though they can be tender to the touch.

Labia: Sitting on both sides of the vaginal opening, labia are called the “vaginal lips.” They protect the genital organs and can also become flooded with blood when aroused, making them sensitive during sex.

Lube: Or “lubricant.” Lubricant is a (typically water- or silicone-based) liquid used during sex that can be put on a person’s genitals to reduce friction and thus, increase overall pleasure.

Masturbation: When a person self-stimulates their own genitals, sometimes finishing in an orgasm.

Mile-High Club: A person joins the fictional “mile-high club” when they have sex on an airplane.

MILF: This is an acronym that stands for “mother I’d like to f*ck.”

Missionary: A sex position where one person lies on their back while the other is on top of them, thrusting or grinding onto or into them.

Motorboating: When you put your face in between two breasts and blow with your mouth or lips, making a the sound of, you guessed it, a motorboat.

Nipple Clamps: Sex toys that are designed to gently clip to your nipples for both visual purposes and nipple stimulation. (The nipples have over 2,000 nerve endings each, making them a powerful tool for reaching orgasm.)

Orbiting: When your ex-partner continues to stay present in your life by liking your social media posts, watching your social media stories, etc., all with the goal of reminding you they’re still around or sexually available.

Orgy: Group sex with multiple partners. For example, it can be in the form of a party where there are lots of people all engaging in various sex acts together.

Pansexual: A sexual orientation where you are emotionally, romantically, or sexually attracted to people of any gender identity. Pansexual comes from the Greek word “pan,” which means “all.”

Pearl Necklace: When a person with a penis has an orgasm and ejaculates onto their partner’s chest area, which supposedly resembles the look of a pearl necklace.

Pegging: When a non-penis-having-person performs penetrative sex with a partner while using a dildo strap-on. (This act is typically associated with heterosexual relationships.)

Period Sex: When you have sex while also menstruating or with a menstruating person.

Pregnant Sex: When you have sex while pregnant or with a pregnant person.

Quickie: Having sex in a fast or speedy manner, usually with no foreplay or aftercare.

Queefing: A noise that can come out of your vagina during sex. (And yep, it can sound like a fart.) It’s when air is released from the vagina suddenly, and the sound is loud enough to notice. There is nothing wrong with queefing, and it is scentless.

Rainbow Kiss: This act typically involves a penis-having person and a vulva-having person, but there are variations to it. A rainbow kiss is when a person with a vulva receives oral sex on their period and a person with a penis receives typical oral sex. Once both parties orgasm, the “rainbow kiss” is when you take period blood and semen into your respective mouths and mix them together during your kiss.

Reverse-Cowgirl: Like regular cowgirl position sex, except the person on top is facing the opposite direction, meaning their partner will see their butt instead of their front.

Rimming: This is a kind of oral sex that involves one partner putting their mouth on another’s anus area.

Rough Sex: While people’s personal definitions of “rough” can vary, this term typically involves sex that incorporates certain forms of BDSM play or aggressive play and dirty talk.

Rusty Trombone: When someone performs both a rim job and a hand job at the same time.

Safe Word: This is a pre-determined word that partners use during sex to signal an end to the activity, no questions asked. In short, it tells your consenting partner that you’ve reached your personal limits and that you’d like to stop in the moment, when you might not have the wherewithal to communicate that in other words.

Sex-repulsed: This refers to someone that finds sex disgusting and revolting. Similar to any other repulsion, someone who experiences being sex-repulsed would not want to watch sex, have sex, talk about, or think about sex.

Shrimping: Sucking on a partner’s toes.

Situationship: This is an umbrella term for relationships that don’t hit the “officially dating” stage and oftentimes fall in the areas between hooking up, friendship, crushing, or hanging out with feelings involved.

Sixty-Nine (69): A sex position where two people give each other oral sex at the same time.

Spooning: Lying down butt-to-back, when one person hugs the other from behind, cuddling and spooning them close into their chest. Partners can also have penetrative sex in the spooning position.

Squirting: When liquid comes out of a person’s vagina. (FYI: Sometimes, it’s watered down pee.) This act is typically associated with orgasm.

Strap-On: A sex toy that includes a harness you wear around the hips and a dildo or vibrator that attaches into the harness. A strap-on is typically worn by non-penis-havers as a way to engage in penetrative sex.

Submarining: This is when an ex-partner reappears in your life and tries to act like nothing occurred since you last interacted.

Tea Bagging: When someone with a penis puts their scrotum (a.k.a. balls) into the face or mouth of another person while standing, hovering, or kneeling over them.

Temperature Play: A consensual form of BDSM play that uses heat or cold temps to heighten the senses. For example, using hot wax or a cold ice cube on a person’s body for arousal.

Thigh Job: When someone uses their thighs to stimulate a person’s genitals. The sex act is similar to a hand job or a foot job, but you use the thighs instead.

Threesome: When three people engage in sexual activity, often including penetration, together at the same time.

Vibrator: This is a sex toy that vibrates and can help bring a person to orgasm. You can use it externally, or you can insert it into the anus or vagina, depending on the toy’s safety instructions.

Don’t laugh, I actually learned some things.

Every good endeavor starts with a plan. So before we sit down, let’s get a few things out of the way.

• Pick a freaking name. Other than your own please!
• What do you feel comfortable doing on your site?
• What do you already have in your selfie store that can be used?
• What resources do you have that you can use?
• How comfortable are you with social media?

Some things to keep in mind as we get started: Will you be comfortable being naked with me? Because that is a hurdle I get a lot… why? I don’t know. First my thought is to make you money. Okay, yes I’m horny and I spend around 3-400 a month on OF and Fansly hosts, but don’t you want a piece of that?

Also is your significant other okay with you being on a site? Keep in mind you don’t have to show your face but it helps. I had a BEAUTIFUL girl drop out because she was concerned about what her husband would think. Tbh, I was wondering if he was going to join her, because damn that would have been good.

Finally, are you okay with people who you might be uncomfortable with having access to your content? This is where I can shield you and handle those kinds of issues, but there are all kinds of people out there.

Contact me today with any questions!

Got your attention? Good. Ever needed money for car repairs, vacation, kid costs, clothes or just living comfortably? Yeah we all have. Through services like OnlyFans and Fansly, people have found ways to make supplemental, manageable, mostly passive income of a few dollars to thousands a month. Contact me today to get started on your future.